Is this a red flag in an arranged marriage setup?
I (M30) have been talking to a woman (F27) for an arranged marriage setup. We’ve met a few times so far, and things have been going okay. During one of our dates, we went out for breakfast and watched the sunrise together. She took a photo of the sunrise (without her or me in the pic, just a Scenic photo) and I asked her to share it with me, which she happily did.
A next day, I posted the sunrise photo on my Instagram account without asking for her consent. I didn’t tag her or mention her in the post because our relationship is still in the early stages, and we haven’t decided to move forward yet. At the time, she didn’t object or say anything about me posting it.
However, after some days, she mentioned that she hates when people post photos taken by her without her consent and without tagging her. I apologized immediately and deleted the photo from my Instagram. She hasn’t replied to my apology yet, and I’m left wondering if this is a red flag.
On one hand, I understand that consent is important, especially early in a relationship. On the other hand, I’m concerned that if she’s asking for consent for something as small as a sunrise photo (which didn’t include her image), it might indicate a lack of trust or that she’ll expect consent for everything in the future.
Am I overthinking this, or is this a sign of potential incompatibility?