Anyone else feel frumpy?

I am big believer in wearing what makes you feel comfortable. I'm older mum and feel odd one out as I don't wear tight leggings daily. At park, toddler groups and library most mums and some granny I see are wearing fitted leggings. I do wear leggings for playing sport but find them cold everyday wear. Any fellow mums out there got tips for styling or kind words so I might feel bit less frumpy?