Do nparents just refuse to buy groceries even if the pantry is practically empty?

I feel like this is a common thing for nparents searching around but it’s honestly been driving me insane that my parents want me to depend on them and let them buy things for me… But they don’t actually GO grocery shopping. Like, there’s barely anything in here to make myself a proper meal that will keep me full the whole day. It’s all just snacks.

And the thing is, my parents aren’t poor. My dad is currently making 200k with his work and his military pension. My mom is retired but she uses my special needs brother’s 700 a month. They can easily go grocery shopping but they don’t wait to until like… the last minute. Mom an acts like it’s a struggle. Maybe it’s understandable in her 60’s but she has no ailments that will make grocery shopping hard for her. She just doesn’t want to do it.

My dad doesn’t either, he only shops when he gets his cigarettes and it’s just snacks and tea. I don’t get why they just can’t use an app or do SOMETHING to just send them to the house. It’s ridiculous.

I’d rather not spend my money on food since all my money in my savings is going to college and I currently don’t have a job but I feel like I always have to have things stocked because I never know when my parents will get groceries or not. It’s just one of the many things that is why I’m moving out very soon. I just hate how I have to tolerate their bullshit, including this.

It’s embarrassing because yeah, I’m a full grown adult… I wouldn’t have a problem shopping for them. I wouldn’t have an issue cooking my own food. But i have to comply with my parents because they want me to be dependent on them. Partially for $500 on their stupid tax exemption and the other because they think I can’t do anything because I have autism and severe anxiety and depression.

Quite frankly though, I’m not going to depend on them anymore at this rate. They just prove that I can’t do that.