Behavioral health rec?

Does anyone have a recommendation for a good* psychiatrist (or LPN/PA in the psychiatry space) specializing in ADHD and anxiety? I’ve really struggled to find the right person that 1) accepts Optum (under United Healthcare insurance) and 2) is accepting new patients.

*good as in: someone that listens to understand/ willingness to discuss medication interactions

*can be virtual or in-person *anywhere in the triangle is fine!

I’ve tried Psychology Today and looking through my insurance’s website- but finding someone decent there has been really difficult. If you have a recommendation for a provider you really enjoy- please, please send it. I’m on the struggle bus.