Black trans person: Jokes lightheartedly about white trans people being into CNC, Petplay, drugs and incest.
The whitest woman you know: well how would you feel if I joked about black people being into watermelons, fried chicken and Kool-aid huh? You don't understand that you, a fellow trans person, joking about finding incest and rape jokes disgusting is feeding into the fascist purity culture that's gonna get us killed!