Why is the grooming of 13-14 year olds on "sfw" femboy discord servers with thigh pic channels run by adults accepted and encouraged by people online when they are clearly being sexualised and groomed

r/teenagers is the biggest community forum run by teenagers for teenagers. Our subreddit is primarily for discussions and memes that an average teenager would enjoy to discuss about. We do not have any age-restriction in place but do keep in mind this is targeted for users between the ages of 13 to 19. Parents, teachers, and the like are welcomed to participate and ask any questions!